okay, post #2 because this one is short and to the point.
After an absorbing conversation about sex with a good friend I was left with increased curiosity towards a question he posed. I decided to ask people throughout the weekend the same question to screen the responses. So far the responses have varied. So I turn to you blog world.
Do you think you can get to know a person better before or after sex?
Questions that question provoked: What constitutes a hoe? How do you know that a person who loves sex is not a hoe? What's up with the double standards women face when it comes to sex?
Your thoughts?!
2 comments:
I say after. Its extremely intimate and if it sucks in that area and there is no connection the whole thing goes down in flames. Same thing with a kiss. No chemistry no bueno.
Double standards? hahah if they didn't exist for Samantha then they sure as hell don't exist for me.
Fak it.
It is quite interesting that you would post this. This has been a recurring theme with some of my female friends.
As for the first question, I say after. After all you have reached the pinnacle of physical intimacy, getting to know what makes someone tic after should be that much easy.
Now for your follow up questions. First, F- the double standard. I personally think that if a woman is secure enough to be up front about sex she is SEXY AS HELL. Second, a female who likes sex is not a HOE, she is an nympho. And lastly, the make up of a hoe is not how much sex or how many partners she has sex with. It's the discretion or indiscretion of the men she has sex with.
Your reputation is not promulgated by you. (maybe some people are into that, but) Your reputation comes from what people say and how they say it about you. If yo have 1 partner and he tells everyone you slept with him, he make make you seem "loose." By the same token, if you have 3 partners and they all are discrete about their sexual rendezvous, you for all people care are Mother Theresa reincarnated.
Remember F- the double standard!!
- J
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