Wednesday, March 25, 2009

bang bang Bang

IF someone treated you right, fulfilled most of your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs, would it bother you if the relationship had no "status"? In other words, would it fly right with you if there was no definition on the type of relationship between the two of you? Just bang bang bang and continue the routine?

Your thoughts?

The following two videos kind of summarize what I'm trying to get at.



4 comments:

Yari Blanco said...

Hell to the modafudgin no. I'm sorry like my older guy friends told me once if you are with a guy for more than 6 months and he does not talk about making you at least exclusive then he never will. Don't let me get wild on this topic, guys are so stupid about titles. It is one thing to rush into something (fine, there is no need to push anyone into a relationship) but to get all the goods and privileges of a relationship and then not want to at least give the girl her place ... you have another thing coming.

Eso es para las que son bien pendeja y tienen la mente de papa.

ItWontMakeSense said...

I don't think if I can agree. lol. some girls have issues with titles too my dear. lets make that clear. and secondly, who says that that they don't give each other their rightful place? is a title equivalent to commitment? and if your needs are being fulfilled (and not just sexual) then why the need for the title? if the topic of titles is too premature, then why stress over it?

i think that titles are a large part of the problem sometimes. that and pride. and games. and selfishness. lol okay ill stop but u get the point. its like when they ask me if im Hispanic... instead of Dominican. squeezes u into a category that doesn't quite fit, but u have to settle for.

Yari Blanco said...

ok devils advocate.

Ebankster said...

I was going to counter point Ms. MsUnderstood. However u did a good job. lol. All I would add is, MsUnderstood, if a title is "stupid" why let it end a good thing just because of its absence? many times, in that regard, women creat their own issues. A man in many cases are like kids (no pun intended) where we will be fine with something as long as we aren't told explicitly what/how/when to do it.

"If it ain't broke. . ."

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