I've been meaning to write this entry for a minute.
I
Have
Amazing
Friends
Punto.
Not to be confused with acquaintances, colleagues or boos.
I mean Friends. I'm talking about the person who will sit in the ER with you all night or the person who will call u 50 times 2 find out if u r ok cuz ur in the ER, the person who will just come over to simply talk about assholes, or sleep over. The ones that will stress their life to plan an amazing birthday week and the friend that will tell you when you're coming out your face and set you straight. The person that will leave a cupcake on your desk after seeing you physically react to your job. Ur bestest.
The ones that will make fun of your outfit and praise your intelligence or accomplishments in the same sentence. The one that you don't have to impress. The friend you call/email/hitup/gtalk/FB/ms/aim/text subconsciously and with no reminders even though u just called/emailed/hitup/gtalked/FBd/msd/aimed/texted them.
I hope you know I speak of the person that will let u wear their clothes, crash @ their place, mooch from their stuff. The one that will allow themselves be vulnerable enough to ask for help with serious problems and offer help in the same situation. The one that will pay for dinner, sit by the water fountain for hours with you and work on the friendship while simultaneously genuinely ignoring their romantic feelings for you. The one that would always come thru on a favor for u no matter how inconvenient it is for them. The one that will stay up all night with you, listening to show theme songs like the teenage mutant ninja turtles and walking in the rain to then suffer with you the next day @ work or in class.
The one that will be real with you no matter wat.
The one that will teach you life lessons you never thought you'd learn. The one who taught you to be okay with showing affection and the words "I love you." The one that fed and clothed you when u had no food or clothing, almost daily. The one that unconditionally laughs at all of your jokes and makes fun of u when they are not funny. The one who bbms u when they are on the crapper. The one who selflessly gives an ear, a ride, and themselves. The one that will deposit $ in your account when your stranded in Albany or "forget" u owe them for that laptop u bought from them. Your wing man and twat swatter when need be. The one that will always ask if you had dinner and about your family. The one that keeps your deepest darkest secrets.
The one that doesn't judge and has only your best interest at heart.
Yep, That Friend. I'm blessed to have that friend in a few people and hope you all get to experience a friend like that. I wrote this entry as my friends came to mind. Scattered thoughts and strongly linked to deep emotion and gratitude. Amigito, graaaaaaaacia. :)
-Pura Vida Mae!!


4 comments:
awww!!!
i love how my friendship is measured on the fact that i fed you and clothed you for the better part of your junior high and highschool career.
lol good times!
This is a great post. It is hits home today more than any other day since yesterday I spent the whole day with my best friend and his family. Though we don't spend as much time as we used to we know we are there for each other.
awwwwwwwwwww. classic pic btw.
good, give those precious people the appropriate time :)
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